Thursday, November 26, 2020

Lottie's Photos: Thanksgiving Gatherings

 

Our family gathered on Louis and Anna's front porch.

While I was growing up the tradition in our family was that Mom and Aunt Marge shared responsibility for hosting Thanksgiving dinner, and whoever did not host would then be responsible for hosting that year’s Christmas dinner. It worked out well for decades. Both celebrations always included three generations of our combined families. Occasionally, someone would be added like Marge’s parents or a current boyfriend.

From reading mom’s diaries, I learned that when she was a girl, she and her parents typically had Thanksgiving dinner with Gramma’s brother’s family Henry Menge, so mom was with a gaggle of her female cousins. In 1933 they all went to Henry’s cabin in Ben Lomond for Thanksgiving dinner. They were with the Menges again in 1936. That year mom and her cousins strategized about how to convince Martin McTigue to take mom to the senior ball.

Dinner was at the Menges again in 1938 but by then Mom had met Dad so after dinner the two of them went to San Francisco with some friends. Anna and Louis hosted in 1939 and included Emma and John Thornally at their table since Mom and Dad were engaged to be married by then.

1940 was the first time Mom hosted Thanksgiving dinner. She planned it well ahead because on November 13th she wrote that she had asked her mother to help her prepare the meal. Afterward, she noted that dinner was fine. The following year Marge offered to host the combined family at her parent’s home and she asked everyone to contribute $2 towards the meal. In 1942 Anna Pattillo hosted. Emma Thornally had the honor in 1944 and served a roast chicken!

The last diary entry about Thanksgiving was for 1946. That year Marge offered again to host at her family home but the ante was only $1. Despite the reduced charge, Mom was fed up and refused to attend, and instead she decided to host her own dinner and invited the Pattillos who declined saying they felt they should accept the earlier invitation from Marge.

I started hosting Thanksgiving dinner at my home in 1977.

Wednesday, November 18, 2020

Cluvarius Coleman 1740 - 1799 My 5th Great Grandfather on my Father's Side

 

Abington Church in Glouster, Virginia where
Cluverius was born
Cluverius Coleman was my 5th great grandfather on my paternal line. He had a role in the American Revolution. He was born in Abingdon Parish which is in Glouster County Virginia. His parents were Joseph Coleman and Grace Cluverius so it is clear where his unusual name came from. Cluverius had five siblings – two brothers Thomas and Samuel and three sisters Elizabeth, Rebecca and Sarah. Glouster County was formed in 1651 and was a major tobacco growing area.

By 1760 Cluverius had relocated to Mecklenburg County where many of our Pattillo ancestors lived. Cluverius married Elizabeth Massey in Mecklenburg that year. They had nine children – four boys and five girls including my 4th great grandmother Rebecca Coleman.

In 1775 Cluverius had a key role in the start of the American Revolution. He along with twenty other representatives met on the eighth and thirteenth of May to “secure a due observation of the association entered into by the Continental Congress”[1] They went on record stating that Lord Dunmore’s actions were alarming in response to his having declared Patrick Henry an outlaw. Patrick Henry and his body of militiamen objected to Dunmore having removed the gunpowder from the public magazine in Williamsburg. “Taking a dramatic step ….. each member of the committee was implored to exert his endeavors to enlist volunteer soldiers for defensive rather than offensive purposes”.[2] This led us one step closer to the American Revolution.

On October 13, 1777 Cluverius, along with five other men, was appointed as a Gentleman Justice for the county.[3] His term was renewed in September of 1778. Cluverius and his fellow jurists were charged with administering loyalty oaths from the citizens of Mecklenburg. The objective was to “dispel or at least render harmless potential enemies of the cause.”[4] Some who were unwilling to sign the oath were asked to leave.

Records show that on at least three occasions in 1776 and 1777 Cluverius was listed on polls taken to determine delegates for Mecklenburg County. Between 1777 and 1779 he witnessed three different deeds that were recorded in Deed Book 5 for Mecklenburg County.

In September of 1778, Justices in Mecklenburg ordered a man named John Cardin to appear in court and answer a charge of “speaking disrespectfully of the measures of this Commonwealth …” Cardin was found guilty, fined five pounds and spent two days in jail. Then in October of 1777, “Leonard Cardin was accused, apparently by Cluverious Coleman, of “harboring two deserters from the militia in the southern service.”[5]


Diagram from Katherine Elliot book of Mecklenburg
County showing the Buckhorn District that Cluverius
collected names of residents

Land Acquisitions

Between 1771 and 1797 Cluverius purchased twelve tracts of land and only sold one parcel as far as I can determine from studying the deed books for Lunenburg and Mecklenburg Counties. His first purchase, at the age of 21, was a 285-acre parcel in Lunenburg County located on the Meherrin River. Six of the deeds noted that he bought land on the Meherrin River. Most were on the south fork of the Meherrin and most of those were on the south side of the south fork but one was on the north side of the south fork. Other parcels were located on Buckhorn Creek, Laton Creek and Allen Creek. All of these parcels were located generally northeast of the town of Chase City which is very close to the town of Boydton – the county seat and the place where our Pattillo ancestors lived for four generations. You may ask how can parcels in two different counties be located in the same place? The answer is because in 1771 what is now Mecklenburg was a part of Lunenburg County. Mecklenburg was carved out of Lunenburg in 1765.

1870 Map of Mecklenburg Co. from the Library of Congress.
The Buckhorn District is the gray section on the top of the map
The purchases varied in size from a one-acre parcel that he bought from Anthony Street for 15 shillings to a 370 acre parcel he acquired in 1774 from Joseph Turner. In total he owned at least 1877 acres. That amount of land constitutes a plantation whereas total acreage of less 500 acres would have been considered a farm. His will noted that Cluverius grew tobacco on his plantation.

Two parcels were mentioned in his will when he left them to his son Thomas. Of those one had a mill on it. 

Census Enumerator

In May of 1782, Cluvarius was one of eight men who were appointed to record the number of tithables in Mecklenburg County which meant males sixteen years of age or older including slaves. This data has been used in place of the first US census taken in 1790 because the census was destroyed during the war of 1812. The district that Cluvarius counted was in the northern part of the county bordering Lunenburg County.

This is the list of names collected by Cluverius that were
published in lieu of the 1790 census which was destroyed.
In October of 1787, Cluverius was involved with an unusual and interesting court case. He submitted an application to be compensated for a slave he owned that had been falsely convicted of burning a barn owned by a man named John Thompson. The record of this case, dated October 24th noted that it included condemnation, a valuation and a certificate. Likely this was the same Mr. Thompson who was his neighbor on Buckhorn Creek.

One month later Cluvarius was engaged in another court transaction when he was named as the guardian of Elizabeth, Jane and Benjamin Coleman who were three of the four children of Cluvarius’s son James Coleman. It is likely that James’s wife, Sarah Whitehouse was still living but it was customary at that time for a man to be appointed as the guardian. The children would have continued to live with their mother but their grandfather was made responsible for their well-being until they came of age.

Will of Cluverius Coleman

On September 14, 1799 Cluverius signed his will. He was fifty-nine years old at the time and living in St. James Parish of Mecklenburg County. In his will he left his wife Massey the land they were living on and five slaves named Anthony, Bob, Primus, Hanna and Amey. In addition, she was to receive six choice head of cattle, one yoke (that’s two) of oxen, one ox cart, ten head of sheep, fifteen head of hogs, thee choice work horses, three choice featherbeds and furniture. He also left Massey his desk and a bookcase, one dozen setting chairs, two choice tables, and such household and kitchen furniture as she may stand in need of. His will stipulated that she should be given sufficient plantation utensils for her use and the crop of corn and tobacco growing on his plantation.

A clip from our family tree showing how Cluverius is
related to James William Pattillo, our great grandfather.
He left each of his son James Coleman’s children five pounds cash which was to be distributed to them when they came of age. That is the equivalent of $140 in 2020. His daughter Elizabeth Coleman Jeffries received one slave named Phebe and each of her five children got thirty pounds cash which is comparable to $838 today. The will offers no explanation as to why he gave so much more to Elizabeth’s children. Possibly he had already given James’s children, his three wards, other cash or property.

My fourth great grandmother Rebecca Coleman Phillips received one negro boy named Moses and one negro woman named Jenny and her increase, plus one hundred pounds to her and her heirs.

His daughter Mary Coleman Boswell’s five children received one negro woman named Abbe and her increase and thirty-five pounds cash a piece. His daughter Grace Coleman Hicks received one negro boy named Edmund and one negro woman named Rachel and her increase. Grace’s children also received one hundred pounds cash each.

His son John Coleman received one hundred pounds, and two cows and calves for himself and his heirs. Anne Coleman Green received five Negroes named Milly, Aggy, Jude, Mike and Sam, as well as a young unbroken mare of her choice, and two cows and calves for her heirs. Anne and each of her children received two hundred pounds.

Son William Coleman got the tract of land that Cluverius had purchased from Nevin Stewart and the tract he bought from John and David Holmes which he estimated contained 313 ¾ acres. This was the parcel that Cluverius and Elizabeth lived on at the time. William and his heirs also received five hundred pounds apiece.

Finally, his son Thomas Coleman and his heirs got all of his land lying on both sides of the Meherrin River including his mill. Anything not otherwise stipulated was to be equally divided between his sons William and Thomas, and upon his wife’s death they were to received everything that he had left to her. He also appointed his sons William and Thomas as his executors.

The will was signed by Cluverius and witnessed by John and Matthew Allen. It was proved in the Mecklenburg County Court in October of 1799. One month later Cluverius died in Mecklenburg County on October 14, 1799.

So, Cluvarius left his children and their heirs between five and five hundred pounds each that’s $140 to $14,000. Why the discrepancy? I don’t think we will ever know. From my experience in reading historic wills I would say that it is more typical that parents tried to provide a more equitable distribution except sons typically received more than daughters.

Map of the area of Mecklenburg where Cluverius owned land.
The black arrows point to the Meherrin River, the South fork,
Buckhorn Creek and the small creek at the top right may
be the Bare Branch.



[1] Bracey, Susan L., Life by the Roaring Roanoke: A History of Mecklenburg County, VA, 1977, p. 64.

[2] Ibid p. 64

[3] Nettie Leitch Major, Revolutionary Service in Mecklenburg Co. Virginia Genealogical Society Quarterly 1982.

[4] Bracey p. 92.

[5] Ibid p. 94